Just for general input and not directed at anyone.
I find it disturbing that any EMS member could somehow overrule or would even want to try to second guess a pilot except to cancel a flight for safety reasons. Part of the job of a pilot is to make sure everyone stays alive. Would you attempt to persuade a pilot to fly against his judgement on a commercial passenger aircraft?
We are talking about HEMS right? It is not the military. The rules are different.
Whether you are on a ground unit, aircraft, ship, or whatever, if you and/or the patient get killed then it was all for nothing. Rapid transport is only useful if it is safe. There are many things in this world that could end your life. (especially in the wilderness) If your (no matter who you are) passion gets in the way of sound judgement, it is time to move on to another profession. EMS is not about "risking ours to save yours" and all that other crap printed on t-shirts and glorified on tv and movies.
From the medical standpoint, I see many providers even now who because they do not see significant injuries or illness regularly enough are upset by it and their better judgement tends to succumb to the graphic nature. All patients need to be triaged objectively, an sometimes that means the "expectant" or dead category. (even if there is only one patient)
I think we have spouted "rapid transport," "get to a hospital," and the "surgical" nature of trauma care to the point where rational judgement is lost.
I understand that when a patient needs a surgeon, only a surgeon will do, but the amount of patients who actually need are rather uncommon.
By definition, all trauma patient are multisystem. If you pinch your arm hard enough to leave a bruise, you will have affected your skin, vascular system and musculoskeletal sytem, you don't hurry to the hospital screaming about needing a surgeon.
Especially if you do not see serious trauma very often, when you do see something "bad" take a time out for a minute, compose yourself, think slow, and act deliberately. If time is so critical to this patient they can't spare a couple of minutes, they are likely not going to make it out of the ICU anyway.