flirting with ER staff
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Shishkabob
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There's a certain level 1 trauma center that usal knows about, where 95% of the ER nurses are my age and they're ALL 8s, 9s, or 10s.
Oh yes. I very much like going there.
Oh yes. I very much like going there.
DesertMedic66
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Just be careful lol. We have a nice hospital, then a hospital with hot nurses, and then a uhhhh..... Community hospital.
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Flirting is one thing if it's casual flirting that you both actively participate in. This kind of thing is just how some people interact with each other, and both parties instinctively understand that's all it is and will ever be. And this is fine. (As long as the verbiage is kept workplace-appropriate...at least in front of other people.)
Asking someone who works in the ER out on a date might be another thing. Your company or department might have a policy against it. If not, it's up to you. Personally, I would recommend just picking someone out because they're attractive and having that as the sole basis for asking them out. But I'm sure you already know that. If there's someone in particular who, aside from being attractive, you've gotten to know and like over time, then as long as there's no policy against it, go for it.
Personally, I would ask the target if they're allowed to go out with EMS people and use that as a segue into actually asking that person out. Yes, it would be as goofball as it sounds, but that kind of thing works for me, because I'm a goofball. ^_^
Asking someone who works in the ER out on a date might be another thing. Your company or department might have a policy against it. If not, it's up to you. Personally, I would recommend just picking someone out because they're attractive and having that as the sole basis for asking them out. But I'm sure you already know that. If there's someone in particular who, aside from being attractive, you've gotten to know and like over time, then as long as there's no policy against it, go for it.
Personally, I would ask the target if they're allowed to go out with EMS people and use that as a segue into actually asking that person out. Yes, it would be as goofball as it sounds, but that kind of thing works for me, because I'm a goofball. ^_^
...and one of these days, Linuss will get up the courage to talk to one of them
(Just giving you crap, as usual)
medic417
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...and one of these days, Linuss will get up the courage to talk to one of them
(Just giving you crap, as usual)
Nope Sally will never get the courage up. :rofl:
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I did my clinicals at community (riverside community) they are one of the best in riverside county... and have really cute nurses
on to the OP, I dont see any problem with it. I met my last Girlfriend in the er. and have gone out on dates with a few other ER nurses. flirt and see if they flirt back, they will make it very clear if they are not feeling it. dont get creepy with it though, just keep it casual until after a date or two and I would let her make the first public display in the ER. with the hours I work getting lunch at the cafeteria or coffee may be the only date that week, do what you can. to sum it up, go for it you wont get a second chance. just dont be creepy.
on the same subject, one of the females on her once told me "dont put your penis where you put your patients, nothing good can come of that"
Shishkabob
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...and one of these days, Linuss will get up the courage to talk to one of them
(Just giving you crap, as usual)
Hey, I spoke with one the other day! And about non-patient related stuff too!
She kicked me.
DesertMedic66
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I did my clinicals at community (riverside community) they are one of the best in riverside county... and have really cute nurses
I've been there 3 times but didn't get to really "look around". Now I've spent plently of time "looking around" at Desert Regional and there are alot of cute nurses.
But right now I got my eye on an EMT student (I'm not an official instructor yet so it is ok
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Shishkabob
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Maybe it has to do with referring to yourself in the third person?:rofl:
In my defense, she had a ring.
My partner told her "Steve here needs a girlfriend... will you keep your eye out for some of your single nurse friends for him?" She said that she "Doesn't know why, but many of her coworkers like to go out with EMS"
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Usalsfyre can refer to usalsfyre's self in the third person because usalsfyre is awesome like that.
Yeah, generally your success rate will be higher when speaking with females who DON'T have a ring. Another tip for success is make friends with the charge nurse and the more senior nurses. They tend to know who's single and looking.
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This was in a fortune cookie today. It really feels kind of appropriate here. :rofl:
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More than several of our employees have met their girlfriends/wives* while they were working as ER nurses.
*Yes, all girlfriends and wives. The pickings for male ER nurses are slim to nonexistent. :glare:
*Yes, all girlfriends and wives. The pickings for male ER nurses are slim to nonexistent. :glare:
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thats what she said....:rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl: i love those jokes.
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I know that all ER staff members are constantly busy on a daily basis, but I have seen some very attractive people in there. I just was wondering what you think about flirting with and asking staff members out on dates?
As long as you arent a pervert/weirdo about, you'll be fine.
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Guess I should avoid it then.