Im a medical assitant and have been dating someone for about 2 and a half years who recently joined a volunteer squad and then became an EMT. I really hope im not sounding selfish of any kind but im not sure what to do. with wedding plans in the making im now having second thoughts. Hes constantly leaving me to take calls even when hes not on call. we'll be in the middle of dinner at a restaurant and he'll blast the pager so everyone can hear it just so he can hear whats going on. And when i calmly told him that it wasnt the place to be doing that he totally flipped out on me...I dunno. Now hes an EMT and hes totally becoming someone i had never thought. I mean when i tell you he has a big EGO-I'm not kidding. He makes up stories about himself to people that dont even know him to make himself look better. One day he didnt have to be at his assigned duty night til 7 and left to be there over an hour early just because he was bored at home...ok so he left to just sit and watch tv when he could have did that at home til it was time to go. I understand what a good thing hes doing but its getting out of control. Im curently in classes for the emt but im rethinking it now because i dont want to be like that. All of you seem to have a really good head about it but Im not sure what to do. Hes almost acting like a lil child and im not sure what to do....am i just going crazy??