Good to see firetender back!! How've you been, sir?
I don't have kids, still basically am one myself but I think I can speak from the other side of this. If there was one thing I hated more than anything was my parents trying to force things on me. The harder they pushed the harder I pushed back. When they guided me and let me do my own thing it was a totally different world. Obviously I still listened to my parents but when they tried to make me spend a lot of time on an activity I wasn't interested in it made everyone unhappy and ultimately put me off of the idea all together.
Example: Boy Scouts. I loved Boy Scouts but I honestly was only interested in merit badges and camping. Tank didn't matter to me a whole lot. Looking back it would have been nice to have my Eagle Scout now but my father hounded me to get it. Constantly. It was all he ever talked about and it ultimately ended in me saying I didn't want to participate in anything anymore and moving on to other activities. High school football didn't help my case either, I really wanted to play football! Should've listened to mom and played soccer and I probably wouldn't have had to have dealt with the whole fractured neck and multiple concussion ordeal but that's a different story
What I'm trying to get at is guide her, when she asks for help welcome her with open arms (which I'm sure you already do, you've always seemed like a solid dude from your posts), offer advice when you think she should change something but don't be overbearing.
It seems like this job runs in the family, I'm sure her rescue squad-capades will bring you less stress than her 16-year-old-high-school-girl-capades will!
