might i offer some advice?
Finally! You got my point! A COMPETENT paramedic. And yet how do you judge who is and who isn't competent? I really joined this forum to learn more about the profession I chose. To get better and be better at what I do by learning from others. What I see a lot on here is one giant pissing contest after another. When the truth is, we all sign up to do things and see things daily that most people don't ever want to see. We should be helping each other be more competent and less stupid ( as I'm now known).
Firstly, please relax.
On this website as in reality, yo uwill find people whom you do not get along with. I have discovered the ignore feature works well. (just like in the real world)
When I first started teaching I was paired with a more senior collegue. To call him a dinosaur would be to understate his age.
He was one of the first US paramedics ever, and his resume would be more than a lifetime achievement for some.
Everytime I tried to discuss newer medical techniques or science, he would offer the strongest of resistance. Out of respect, I never argued with him.
One day I was having a particularly bad day, and he challenged me on something I was very sure of. To say the least, I made no effort at diplomacy to tell him exactly what I knew and what I thought of his resistance.
He smiled, and told me I finally got it.
He wasn't going to accept somebody's word on medicine. He wanted to hear the argument. He wanted me to present my evidence and wanted convinced, not simply told something was newer or better.
It had to stand up to the sniff test and I had to know enough about the topic to be able to tell if it was valid or a biased opinion.
Since that day many years ago, we have become good friends, but we still argue, sometimes he even wins. (but not often)
It is not the statement that makes one better. It is the fight to back it up.
The plea for comraderie is not impressive to many of us. We were thrown to the wolves and expected to be able to fend for ourselves. It is said in emergency service, we eat our own young. I think that to be true.
Like a good number of people here, I have seen a great many things. Some magnificent, some terrible. But I didn't just get to sign up to be in this club. I had to earn it.
So do you...
If you don't like what somebody says to you, show them what you got and make a stand.
Sometimes you will be right, sometimes wrong, sometimes win, sometimes lose. Sometimes you will contribute a new perspective, but you will always learn.